As Jesus’s return draws near, it is certain that evil and deceit will worsen (2 Tim. 3:13), even among those who claim to be Christians. Just as in the days of Noah and Lot—when humanity’s mindset was continually evil (Gen. 6:5)—our world is permeated by rampant pride, self-serving attitudes, and indifference toward the needs of others (Ezekiel 16:48-50). Violence and moral corruption are becoming more commonplace.
As Jesus’s ambassadors, we believe the gathering of believers should be a refuge for persecuted followers of Christ, not a place of added burdens. When one member suffers, the whole body is affected. Therefore, we seek to be a light in the darkness—a refuge for the oppressed and a voice against the strongholds and traditions of men that promote oppression rather than peace. Our hope is to restore hearts and minds with truth, so that those under attack can be healed and equipped to stand firm against evil while abiding in the peace that surpasses understanding.
Every story is as unique as the individuals within it, yet God’s mercy, love, and grace remain steadfast. He has given us evidence of this by sending His Son, Jesus, to pursue us as His bride. We worship a God of redemption. Jesus sought out and healed the marginalized, setting captives free. Being full of grace and truth, we reflect Him when we embody these qualities. However, His grace and compassion do not exist apart from His truth and justice. We passionately strive to protect and care for the wounded while also calling others to repentance.
Because the Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, we seek to be one as well—binding up the broken and providing a trauma-sensitive space for healing and growth. In this antagonistic world, we long to be a place where love and peace abound. While we recognize that God has called us to peace, we also acknowledge the battles we must face. Our aim is to equip the saints with wisdom to fight the good fight in love and righteousness—good shepherds care for the sheep while also warning of danger.
As dedicated Christians who have experienced divorce, it is our honor to encourage and uplift those who have endured separation, are struggling in marriage, or are facing relationships that do not reflect Christ’s love. Equipped to discern the dynamics that lead to abuse and relational destruction, we earnestly seek to walk alongside those caught in—or recovering from—the “fog” of that war. Whether you are in the trenches, on the battlefield, or a wounded soldier trying to rebuild, we hope to provide a safe place to regain strength and commune with fellow sufferers.
We take seriously the need for leaders to be aware of abusive dynamics, convinced that if churches understood the pathology of power and control, they would overcome the stigma of saying, “‘Peace, peace,’ when there is no peace,” to fellow believers who suffer daily persecution.
If you are currently in—or exiting—an abusive relationship, you are not alone. You are precious to our Savior and to us. We share your tears and hope to provide a safe community where you can heal and thrive.
We are against the misuse of power and control in personal relationships.
Our commitment is to protect the safety, dignity, and well-being of every person God has entrusted to this community. Because misuse of power and control harms people, we cannot allow such behaviors within our congregation. We are committed to protecting the vulnerable and addressing harmful behavior with clarity and compassion. When someone’s actions create risk or harm to others, we set boundaries for the purpose of safety, not punishment. Our goal is to provide a safe place to foster healing, and transformation for everyone involved.
SOME Divorce is not sin
When someone divorces because their spouse commits adultery, Divorced Church believes divorce is permitted (Matthew 19:9).
We also believe:
Psalm 11:5 — God hates violence
Psalm 72:14 — God rescues the oppressed
Malachi 2:16 — God opposes treacherous dealings
Proverbs 22:3 — “the prudent sees danger and hides himself”
1 John 3:15 — “Whoever hates his brother is a murderer.”
(Hatred = murder ≠ “Willing to live with,” of 1 Corinthians 7:13)
1 Corinthians 7:15 — God “has called us to peace.”
Old Testament case-law shows that when essential obligations of marriage are denied, the spouse is free to leave. God permits release when a spouse fails to provide “food, clothing, and marital rights.” (Exodus 21:10–1)
Also, God Himself Divorced the northern kingdom for their idolatry. (Jeremiah 3:8)
Therefore we conclude that divorce is a Biblical means of escape (1 Corinthians 10:13), due to “hardness of heart” (Mark 10:5 of the individual who continues to instigate destructive behavior within a marriage) so that those caught in a destructive marriage (which typically ceases to function as marriage was originally intended) can be released from bondage to that marriage. God desires mercy and not sacrifice (Hosea 6:6; Matthew 12:7)
Divorce does not prevent any believer from preaching, or disqualify them teaching the Gospel
We do not elect elders or deacons within Divorced Church. If an individual is called to minister or care-take towards someone in need we encourage them to do so. (Matthew 28:18-20, Mark 16:15, I Peter 3:15).
Most churches assume their preacher to be an automatically elected elder or deacon as soon as they are hired. Divorced Church’s Pastor is a disciple maker, not an elected elder or deacon. If the future of Divorced Church ever experiences people being neglected from care-taking and basic spiritual needs then those of good reputation, full of the Holy Spirit and wisdom, will be appointed over this business. As for now, we choose to follow up on each member as a body to ensure every member is receiving care.
Divorced Church is not for:
- Individuals who do not desire to grow in Christlikeness.
- Individuals not willing to humble themselves/ repent of sin.
- Those seeking their own kingdom and their own will be done.
- Dwellers on arguments, complaining, and causes of disunity.
- Political strife and debate.
What Denomination is Divorced Church?
We are a Non-denominational group of Christ followers that affirm the Bible as our authority.
Divorced Church primarily focuses on Coaching
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